So a couple of months ago I broke up with a guy I'd been with almost 4 years! I'll call him Shithead.
Anyway, all along Shithead kept telling me he wanted a future together, and we were soul mates, blah blah blah.
However actions speak MUCH LOUDER than words. The reality was that in nearly 4 years together I met his parents ONCE! I had introduced him to my ENTIRE FAMILY on many occasions. I went out of my way to include him in every aspect of my life. Whereas in his I was shut out completely and generally treated like "the other woman".
Of course since the breakup I learned that he was trying to see other guys on the side. Admittedly we lived 45 minutes from each other, so getting together on weekdays was next to impossible.
I see that online in certain places he talks about wanting someone to "share his love with". I want to scream to the universe that that's not what he really wants.
I have stayed friends with him, partially out of the fact that he WAS fun to hang out with, and partially under my hidden agenda that I want to sabotage ALL his future relationships and tell the other guys that they'll NEVER really have him, because his mother won't cut the cord!
All men, gay, straight, whatever, should come with a warning label and information from ALL their past exes.
Au revoir Shithead! I hope you find someone who treats you the same way you treated me!
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