It's not the funnest place in the world to be. At least in the straight world they have TONS more choices. If you live in a moderately sized city, as I do, then odds are you have either dated, slept with just about everyone, or know someone who has dated, slept with, everyone you could possibly date!
I recently put up an ad on craigslist (and NO I didn't see the Craigslist Murderer movie) and I got a response. He's a younger guy (mid 20's) and we've corresponded back and forth for about a month.
Well he finally came over last night, ostensibly to watch some movies and order pizza. He turned out to be cuter than his pictures led on, and we sat and watched tv for a while. I came back and lit some candles, just for atmosphere. Next thing I know we're necking like mad and stripping off clothes.
Flash ahead 15 minutes and we're both cleaning off (hey can I get you a towel is a common phrase in the gay community) and suddenly his phone rings...OH NO, he has to babysit suddenly tonight. So 5 minutes later he's out the door and I'm popping a frozen pizza into the stove.
Now I haven't heard from him at all today.
About par for the course. When you're a member of the gay community, you might as well check your heart at the door! Romance doesn't really exist anymore!
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